I was shocked when I heard the story of a man who ended his marriage with his new wife because he found out she wasn't a virgin as he had thought. I was baffled and I thought, when a woman loses her virginity before marriage, has she also lost her capacity to love and care for her husband and family or the ability to be a good wife and helpmate to her husband?.
I know some guys who say they must get married to virgins and I always ask them who would marry the ones they have screwed.
Virginity they say is the pride of a woman. I'm not going to argue that and I'm really proud of those that are able to keep theirs till marriage. Still, I have seen men who had terrible marriages even though they married virgins and I have also seen men who ended up in blissful marriages even though they got married to non virgins. Virginity has nothing to do with a woman's attitude. That she is not a virgin doesn't make her a whore or doesn't mean she has slept with a hundred men and have had a hundred abortions.
Girls lose their virginities to men not ghosts under different circumstances. Some were deceived, some were raped, some gave it up out of love, some just lost it because they wanted to. None of these make non virgins bad people or potential bad wives. Its all in the attitude.
I honestly do not think virgins have any advantage over non virgins or what do you think?
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